This book is an epic and no amount of appreciation can do justice.
Considerable amount of work and thinking has gone to come up with content that is refreshingly original and does not care to conform to political correctness or present day narrative.
The book begins by explaining how men and women drastically differ in their biology and hence their choice for partner.
Women are inherently uncertain about everything - more emotional and not always rational. So naturally they look for the opposite of this - non emotional, calm, rational and certain. Therefore confidence and strong physique are essential for a man.
Women seek a leader who can lead them through uncertainty.
Women do not love and respect a man - it is actually his masculine frame they love. The masculinity of a man is the wall of masculinity around him.
To get female attention and respect, a man should be framed. As such the man's personality should exist behind the wall of masculinity (frame) that he has created.
A framed man has the following qualities -
The man does not show his emotions - he grieves alone and celebrates alone behind the wall he built.
The man does not get angry or complain - because he is always in control of his emotions and his actions
The man does not care about what others think of him
The man does not look for other people's validation
The man enjoys his own company behind the wall and therefore does not share his feelings
As such the man does not share his fears, hopes, dreams, goals, sorrows or secrets to anybody especially to his woman
The man does not need to share his feelings to anybody other than himself
The man loves himself and takes care of his own health and wellbeing
The man is focused on his own purpose and is selfish in pursuing his own purpose
The man does not smile to make himself look harmless and friendly
The man is confident of his body and his body language reflects this - shoulders back and chin raised to God and strong eye contact
Nobody tells him what to do, he never doubts himself because he knows his worth
The man is never indecisive. He is calm, rational and not afraid to take hard decisions. This may look arrogant to others, but looking arrogant is better than being indecisive.
The man does not tolerate disrespect
The man never gossips and speaks only when necessary
The man is calm in stressful situation
The man is emotionally distant to his woman
In sex, the man dominates and prioritizes his own pleasures above all else
The man does not try to please his woman or others
The man has a variety of skills (for example like a handyman or survive in wilderness)
All the above create a wall of masculinity around the man. Women imagine/paint the man of their dreams on this wall. Without this wall, woman cannot imagine the man of her dreams and there would be nothing worth loving in a man.
A framed man is loved, respected and bestowed with unlimited favors by women.
Break the wall and there is nothing to love.
Framed men are rare but highly respected by women, therefore picking up frame (or building a wall) is highly advantageous.
The book is highly readable because of simple language and practical examples. The book is enjoyable but cannot be fully understood fully in a single iteration. Multiple readings and notes taking are in order.
I highly recommend owning this book in paperback format.
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